I sort of worked out why a- are so hated at a young age. As a teen, my father looked me into my eyes and said he hoped that I would fall into with a man who beats and rapes me every day, and there is nothing I can do because I will accept it out of romantic love and attraction.

Ultimately it is about power. It is allos cannot take no for an answer, and it is just another chip for them to use to abuse. When they are powerless in that specific way, they become even more nasty.

It's not exactly a secret that queer community foster predators, the ones telling minors that they need to prove they are real queer by dating and fucking the community elders. And a- can't be manipulated that way. No shit they are angry.